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LOWELL GRISHAM: Stopping after 18 years; column’s lasting message is “love your neighbor”

LOWELL GRISHAM: Stopping after 18 years; column’s lasting message is “love your neighbor”

That is my final common column. I’ve loved the chance to replicate on the intersection of faith and information on this newspaper for 18 years. I am grateful to the Democrat Gazette and earlier than that, the Northwest Arkansas Instances.

Here is how I started that first column in 2004: Albert Einstein is commonly quoted for his perception: “No drawback might be solved from the identical consciousness that created it.” Or extra colloquially, “We will not resolve issues by utilizing the identical sort of considering we used once we created them.”

If we’re to assist heal the world relatively than assist destroy it, we’ll have to find the next consciousness than the traditional considering that has created a nation divided virtually in half — purple states and blue states. We’ll have to seek out political knowledge that transcends the concept “if you’re not for us, you are towards us.” We’ll must discover a non secular path that’s extra complete than saved verses misplaced, righteous verses infidel, and so on.

The basic Christian values are compassion and love and a dedication to justice seen via the eyes of compassion and love. That is the traditional knowledge of Jesus. If Christians are to assist heal the world relatively than destroy it, we’re going to must act out of those greater values and resist the simplistic temptation to exchange morality with moralism, servanthood with triumphalism. It’s simple to see why many considerate individuals of compassion and love can have a look at the modern church and see it extra as a supply of the issues than the options.

I write from inside my very own specific consciousness. I’m a Southern-born, straight, white, male, Christian. Folks like me created the American South, and we nonetheless maintain most of its energy. I really like the South. It’s a place of nice surprise, grace and creativity. However I additionally know we’ve numerous issues.

As a result of individuals like me have had the entire energy, these issues are our issues. We created them. And “No drawback might be solved from the identical consciousness that created it.”

The Arkansas Legislature is filled with individuals like me. It all the time has been. And the legislature thinks we’ve issues. Issues with Black individuals who need their historical past written from a wider perspective. Issues with immigrants who’ve been drawn to the American Dream just a few generations after our ancestors have been. Issues with individuals whose sexual identification is something aside from straight. Issues with girls who wish to management their very own our bodies and households.

The issue is that individuals like me have all the ability, and we expect we all know how everyone else ought to stay. However we aren’t good at listening to people who find themselves completely different from us.

Richard Niebuhr stated, “[People] are typically proper in what they affirm and flawed in what they deny. What we deny is mostly one thing that lies outdoors our expertise, about which we are able to subsequently say nothing.”

Throughout my childhood, white individuals believed segregation was God’s will. Black individuals informed us we have been flawed, however we weren’t excellent at listening. Black individuals weren’t the issue. White individuals have been the issue. We denied the total humanity of Black individuals. We wanted to develop in compassion and love.

What if the straight, white Christian individuals in cost now would take heed to our neighbors? Pay attention with compassion. We’d create a extra simply society. If the Arkansas legislature and governor would pay attention with compassion and like to the tales of our neighbors, they would not be passing imply legal guidelines.

St. Paul teaches the fruit of the Spirit is love, pleasure, peace, persistence, kindness, generosity, faithfulness, gentleness, and temperance. “Towards such issues, there isn’t a legislation.” (Galatians 22-23)

Usually I’ve discovered the fruit of the Spirit within the sudden place and within the unfamiliar individual. I met the Spirit after I opened myself to friendships with homosexual individuals. The Spirit manifested after I acquired to know transgender neighbors and even just a few drag queens. I’ve identified good girls with unplanned pregnancies making their greatest decisions. I’ve seen the fruit of the Spirit in undocumented immigrants and in Dreamers. There isn’t any simply legislation towards these individuals of the Spirit.

As I believe again to my columns over these 18 years, I typically wrote about individuals or teams who I believed have been being handled unfairly by our tradition and by Christians. So many columns ended merely with Jesus’ admonition, “Love your neighbor as your self.” That looks as if a very good place to finish it. Thanks for studying.


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